In caring for my parents and then my mother-in-law, we used all the typical and non-typical medical equipment, from walkers and oxygen concentrators to lift chairs and bedside commodes. But I found that it was often the little things that promoted independence or brought the most comfort. You can find these items (most of them inexpensive) on Amazon or at durable medical equipment suppliers or pharmacies.

• Walker slides: Tennis balls help walkers move more smoothly over linoleum or tile, but they don’t work well on carpets. Walker slides glide over many different surfaces and keep your loved one moving.
• Walker tray: The tray fits down over a standard walker’s handles so things can be transported without hindering use of the walker. My mother and then my mother-in-law carried food, drinks, books, and anything else they wanted to take to their rooms and even occasionally used it as a TV tray for eating.
• Oxygen tubing earpieces: These are tiny foam covers for the binasal O2 tubing that goes over the ears. Tiny—but indispensable when the oxygen tubing is rubbing sores on the user’s ears. I first learned about them from my dad’s oxygen supplier, but I found them online as “cannula cushions.”
• Shampoo caps, dry shampoo, and no-rinse bath cloths: We used these items when my mother-in-law was bedridden for weeks, but they come in handy anytime bathing and hair washing are difficult or impossible. Nothing lifts the spirits more than feeling clean and fresh.
• Transport chair: Full-size wheelchairs are great for some things (and may be covered by Medicare), but in my book, nothing beats a transport chair for taking your loved one to the doctor or on an outing. Look for one that is lightweight but sturdy. These jewels fold compactly to fit into the trunk and don’t strain your back like a heavy wheelchair does. You can expect to pay $150-$200 (or more), but I used the same one for my mom, mother-in-law, and 6-foot-7-inch, 235-pound dad a total of 10 years. I recommend buying one in person rather than online so you can test the quality yourself.

I wouldn’t have known about these lifesavers and many others if someone hadn’t told me. If your loved one is having a problem and you wish there were a solution, don’t be afraid to ask medical suppliers or other caregivers (or me!). We might have just the right answer for you.

But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him, And went to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him. Luke 10:33-34

Tracy Crump dispenses hope in the award-winning Health, Healing, and Wholeness: Devotions of Hope in the Midst of Illness (CrossLink Publishing, 2021). A former intensive care nurse, she cared for her parents and her mother-in-law and understands both the burdens and joys of caregiving. Her devotions have been featured in Guideposts books, The Upper Room, and many other publications, and she has contributed 22 stories to Chicken Soup for the Soul® books. She also conducts writing workshops, freelance edits, and proofreads for Farmers’ Almanac. But her most important job is Grandma to five completely unspoiled grandchildren.